Dlm entry kali ini saya dah berjanji pada diri saya akan tulis pasal perangai lelaki.... I bukannya hiprokrit. kalau lelaki bersalah, i akan kata lelaki bersalah. Kalau perempuan salah, i akan kata perempuan salah. Dalam entry yang lepas, i tulis mengenai perangai perempuan yang negatif supaya perempuan insaf dan memperbetulkan diri. kalau saya tulis semua yang indah dan baik pasal perempuan tak berguna juga. i harap semua faham tentangnya. Sebab ada golongan perempuan yang emotional selepas membaca tulisan saya. Be cool.....
Kali ini pula semua perangai negatif lelaki saya akan tulis supaya lelaki pulak insaf dan memperbetulkan diri. Jgn pulak ada yang beremosi dan mengamuk kat saya.
Ini adalah blog. Semua mempunyai hak untuk memberi pandangan dan setiap insan mindanya berbeza. kalau semua manusia fikirannya sama..maka amanlaaa dunia ciptaan Allah. Sekarang balik kepada cerita lelaki......
Lelaki adalah manusia pertama ciptaan Allah di bumi ini. Hawa pula dicipta dari tulang rusuk Adam sebagai teman di Bumi. Citer selanjutnya semua tahu tak payah i tulis.
Lelaki ini kaum yang mempunyai Ego yang tinggi. Dia org ini species yang tak mengalah dgn mudah walaupun mereka itu tak benar. bak kata org tua" cuba menegakkan benang yang basah". satu contoh jelas adalah lelaki yang mandul tetapi salahkan isteri kerana tak dapat lahirkan anak.
Lelaki juga panas barang. Menggunakan cara yang sudah lapuk dalam mendidik anak. garang bukan saja dengan anak bahkan dengan isteri. tetapi bukan semua lelaki begitu ada juga lelaki yang cool dan gentlemen.
Lelaki juga kadangkala kaum yang tidak megenang budi isteri....selalu anggap dirinya champion rumahtangga. langsung tidak menghargai sumbangan si isteri. Ada kata2..."dibelakang kejayaan setiap lelaki ada seorang wanita (samada isteri atau ibu).
Ada juga lelaki yang tidak bertanggungjawab. Lepas kahwin atau dapat anak...dibiarkan begitu sajer. Keruntuhan rumahtangga biasanya berpunya drp ketidaksefahaman antara suami dan isteri. Gejala cerai berai juga adalah penyebab utama banyak masalah sosial dan jenayah.
Sebagai kesimpulan lelaki dan wanita sama2 ada kebaikan dan kelemahan diri. Sama2lah kita saling bantu membantu, maham memahami, berkerja sama sebagai satu pasukan dalam rumahtangga...supaya keluarga bahagia akan pastikan anak2 berjaya.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Perangai Perempuan.....
Topic mengenai perempuan selalu mendapat sambutan hangat dan kontroversi. Mungkin kerana ramai follower blog ini adalah kaum wanita. Mereka suka bertindak pantas memberi komen kerana mereka golongan yang kurang sabar..... Kata-kata begini sudah pasti akan membuat kaum wanita menunjukkan reaksi mereka dgn pantas.
Kaum wanita secara lahiriah adalah lemah berbanding kaum lelaki. Mereka adalah kaum yang penuh beremosi dan cepat melenting berbanding kaum lelaki. Kaum wanita juga lebih sensitif dan cepat merajuk. Mungkin mereka ingin kaum lelaki memujuk mereka.
Kaum yang kuat gosip adalah wanita. Mereka juga suka jaga tepi kain orang lain.
Tidak kira dimana pun di rumah, dia restoran mahupun di internet kaum wanita bergossip.
Wanita juga adalah materialistik. Suka barang hiasan, peralatan rumah mahun pun kenderaaan mewah. Suka memakai barang kemas spt emas dan belian, hias rumah dgn perabot mahal drp Itali serta memiliki kereta mewah spt nissan fair lady atau kereta sports yang lain. Tidak lupa juga pakaian yang mahal2 juga.
Kaum wanita adalah pemalu dan tidak akan menyatakan sesuatu walaupun dia suka kepafa seseorang lelaki. Mereka mahu lelaki itu sebut sesuatu dahulu baru mereka akan menyatakan isi hati mereka.
Begitu juga, Kaum wanita juga kaum tidak kan meminta bila mahu bersama suaminya. Berbeza kaum lelaki akan bertindak lebih dahulu. Tetapi apabila telah merangsang kaum wainta menjadi lebih ganas drp lelaki. hahahahha.
Bila bercakap-cakap sevara puratanya kaum perempuan akan lebih banyak bercakap dan membebel daripada kaum lelaki. Orang kata ada sebabnya... "Kaum wanita memilki dua mulut manakala lelaki memiliki dua kepala. So lelaki lebih banyak berfikir manakala perempaun lebih banyak bercakap".
Kita tunggu dan baca komen drp wanita-wanita disana. Mungkin ramai yang tidak bersetuju tetapi ini adalah amatan saya.....everybody has his/her rights to say his/her views.....
Kaum wanita secara lahiriah adalah lemah berbanding kaum lelaki. Mereka adalah kaum yang penuh beremosi dan cepat melenting berbanding kaum lelaki. Kaum wanita juga lebih sensitif dan cepat merajuk. Mungkin mereka ingin kaum lelaki memujuk mereka.
Kaum yang kuat gosip adalah wanita. Mereka juga suka jaga tepi kain orang lain.
Tidak kira dimana pun di rumah, dia restoran mahupun di internet kaum wanita bergossip.
Wanita juga adalah materialistik. Suka barang hiasan, peralatan rumah mahun pun kenderaaan mewah. Suka memakai barang kemas spt emas dan belian, hias rumah dgn perabot mahal drp Itali serta memiliki kereta mewah spt nissan fair lady atau kereta sports yang lain. Tidak lupa juga pakaian yang mahal2 juga.
Kaum wanita adalah pemalu dan tidak akan menyatakan sesuatu walaupun dia suka kepafa seseorang lelaki. Mereka mahu lelaki itu sebut sesuatu dahulu baru mereka akan menyatakan isi hati mereka.
Begitu juga, Kaum wanita juga kaum tidak kan meminta bila mahu bersama suaminya. Berbeza kaum lelaki akan bertindak lebih dahulu. Tetapi apabila telah merangsang kaum wainta menjadi lebih ganas drp lelaki. hahahahha.
Bila bercakap-cakap sevara puratanya kaum perempuan akan lebih banyak bercakap dan membebel daripada kaum lelaki. Orang kata ada sebabnya... "Kaum wanita memilki dua mulut manakala lelaki memiliki dua kepala. So lelaki lebih banyak berfikir manakala perempaun lebih banyak bercakap".
Kita tunggu dan baca komen drp wanita-wanita disana. Mungkin ramai yang tidak bersetuju tetapi ini adalah amatan saya.....everybody has his/her rights to say his/her views.....
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Perempuan Simpanan...Mistress
Ada seorang fren kat FB suruh saya tulis pasal Perempuan Simpanan (Mistress). Mistress (lover), a woman, other than his wife, with whom a man has a continuing sexual relationship. Perempuan simpanan is usually young unmarried woman but nowadays they can even be divorcee or even married woman.
If a man keeps a woman other than his wife she is called mistress. If a married woman keeps a man other than her husband then he is known as male mistress.
Perempuan simpanan ini biasanya terdiri daripada gadis2 muda yang hidup mewah beyond kemampuan mereka. Biasanya mereka disimpanan oleh lelaki yang lebih tua dan even sebaya dengan ayah mereaka. Gadis2 ini hidup mewah diberi tempat tinggal, kad kredit untuk membeli belah dan kereta mewah. Biasa gadis ini adalah cantik bagai model.
Kenapa gadis memilih untuk jadi perempuan simpanan. Motif utama ialah wang dan kemewahan. Untuk tidak hidup susah dan secara short-cut untuk menikmati semua kebahagian dunia mereka memilih jadi perempuan simpanan. dengan memilih sugar daddy yang kaya boleh memberi segala apa yang dikehendaki termasuk pergi melancong luar negeri.
Selain itu, perempuan jadi mistress, mungkin kerana frust bercinta atau telah kehilangan kegadisannya dan tiada keinginan untuk berkahwin serta membuat keputusan jadi perempuan simpanan.
Ramai juga perempuan yang belum kahwin kerana kini agak susah nak cari lelaki yang bertanggung jawab. Mungkin kaum perempuan makin ramai daripada lelaki. Pulak tuu... kaum lelaki ramai yang jadi penagih dadah dan lepak saner sini. Oleh itu, berlaku kekurangan species lelaki yang baik dan bertanggungjawab serta boleh memberi kebahagiaan dan perlindungan. Maka terpaksa jadi mistress kepada lelaki yang lebih tua dan sudah berkahwin serta kaya.
Satu lagi fenomena ialah....susah nak poligamy dinegara ini walaupun agama membenarkannya. Isteri kebanyakkannya tidak membenarkan suami berkahwin lebih daripada satu. Ungkapan pertama yang keluar adalah" kalau abang nak kahwin satu lagi, ceraikan saya". Lelaki yang berani sikit kahwin secara rahsia. Tetapi suami yang tidak berani atau malas nak bising dengan si-isteri akan terpaksa simpan perempuan secara rahsia. Ada juga lelaki yang sayangkan keluarga -isteri dan anak2, tetapi kerana kekurangan nafkah batin akan simpan perempuan lain secara rahsia.
Dari sudut agama.... perempuan simpanan adalah dosa jika melakukan seks tanpa bernikah. Tetapi kalau hanya menyimpan perempuan untuk membantu perempuan tersebut dan tidak melakukan apa2 bertentangan dengan ajaran agama..adakah itu dosa? Tidak mungkin, kita tidak akan mentarifkannya sebagai perempuan simpanan... mungkin kita boleh tarifkannya sebagai anak angkat.
Dua insan lelaki dan perempuan dizaman modern ini tidakkah boleh jadi kawan setia. Berkongsi pengalaman dan idea....kerana hidup ini bukan seks semata2..hidup ini lebih drp itu. Bagi saya hubungan sebegini adalah biasa tetapi masyarakat kita tetap akan bercakap yang bukan2 dan memandang serong. Kerana bagi masyarakat kita kawan adalah untuk kaum sejenis tetapi kalau berlainan jantina makan hubungan itu ditafsirkan sebagai lain.
Balik kepada soal perempuan simpanan, di negara kita ia makin berleluasa....
Now nak salahkan siapa... kerana kewujudan fenomena perempuan simpanan.....adakah nak
salahkan Si suami...
salahkan Si isteri....
salahkan Si perempuan simpanan....
semua ada peranan yang dimainkan menyebabkan wujudnya PEREMPUAN SIMPANAN
Apa pendapat anda pembaca blog yang budiman?
If a man keeps a woman other than his wife she is called mistress. If a married woman keeps a man other than her husband then he is known as male mistress.
Perempuan simpanan ini biasanya terdiri daripada gadis2 muda yang hidup mewah beyond kemampuan mereka. Biasanya mereka disimpanan oleh lelaki yang lebih tua dan even sebaya dengan ayah mereaka. Gadis2 ini hidup mewah diberi tempat tinggal, kad kredit untuk membeli belah dan kereta mewah. Biasa gadis ini adalah cantik bagai model.
Kenapa gadis memilih untuk jadi perempuan simpanan. Motif utama ialah wang dan kemewahan. Untuk tidak hidup susah dan secara short-cut untuk menikmati semua kebahagian dunia mereka memilih jadi perempuan simpanan. dengan memilih sugar daddy yang kaya boleh memberi segala apa yang dikehendaki termasuk pergi melancong luar negeri.
Selain itu, perempuan jadi mistress, mungkin kerana frust bercinta atau telah kehilangan kegadisannya dan tiada keinginan untuk berkahwin serta membuat keputusan jadi perempuan simpanan.
Ramai juga perempuan yang belum kahwin kerana kini agak susah nak cari lelaki yang bertanggung jawab. Mungkin kaum perempuan makin ramai daripada lelaki. Pulak tuu... kaum lelaki ramai yang jadi penagih dadah dan lepak saner sini. Oleh itu, berlaku kekurangan species lelaki yang baik dan bertanggungjawab serta boleh memberi kebahagiaan dan perlindungan. Maka terpaksa jadi mistress kepada lelaki yang lebih tua dan sudah berkahwin serta kaya.
Satu lagi fenomena ialah....susah nak poligamy dinegara ini walaupun agama membenarkannya. Isteri kebanyakkannya tidak membenarkan suami berkahwin lebih daripada satu. Ungkapan pertama yang keluar adalah" kalau abang nak kahwin satu lagi, ceraikan saya". Lelaki yang berani sikit kahwin secara rahsia. Tetapi suami yang tidak berani atau malas nak bising dengan si-isteri akan terpaksa simpan perempuan secara rahsia. Ada juga lelaki yang sayangkan keluarga -isteri dan anak2, tetapi kerana kekurangan nafkah batin akan simpan perempuan lain secara rahsia.
Dari sudut agama.... perempuan simpanan adalah dosa jika melakukan seks tanpa bernikah. Tetapi kalau hanya menyimpan perempuan untuk membantu perempuan tersebut dan tidak melakukan apa2 bertentangan dengan ajaran agama..adakah itu dosa? Tidak mungkin, kita tidak akan mentarifkannya sebagai perempuan simpanan... mungkin kita boleh tarifkannya sebagai anak angkat.
Dua insan lelaki dan perempuan dizaman modern ini tidakkah boleh jadi kawan setia. Berkongsi pengalaman dan idea....kerana hidup ini bukan seks semata2..hidup ini lebih drp itu. Bagi saya hubungan sebegini adalah biasa tetapi masyarakat kita tetap akan bercakap yang bukan2 dan memandang serong. Kerana bagi masyarakat kita kawan adalah untuk kaum sejenis tetapi kalau berlainan jantina makan hubungan itu ditafsirkan sebagai lain.
Balik kepada soal perempuan simpanan, di negara kita ia makin berleluasa....
Now nak salahkan siapa... kerana kewujudan fenomena perempuan simpanan.....adakah nak
salahkan Si suami...
salahkan Si isteri....
salahkan Si perempuan simpanan....
semua ada peranan yang dimainkan menyebabkan wujudnya PEREMPUAN SIMPANAN
Apa pendapat anda pembaca blog yang budiman?
Boss
One of my blog reader suggested to write about the Boss. May be she is angry or she likes the Boss, i'm not sure. I myself is a Boss at a certain level in my organization. Sure my officers will be reading my blog and sure they will comment how they feel. Of course, some won't have the guts to comment fearing i may retaliate. But i'm an open-minded person, i wont penalize anybody. I feel everybody has a right for their opinion although it differs from your opinion. Opinion and criticism are two different things. Opinion is giving your ideas and views. Criticism means whatever you do is wrong and not the right way. Even in criticism there is positive and negative criticism. There are officers who come and tell me that my decision is not right. I'm open, sometimes, i change the decision but more often, I have my own reasons as to why i make certain decision.
Coming back to the topic of boss. There are many types of bosses and some of them are:
Good boss
bad boss
stingy boss
polite boss
bossy boss
charismatic boss
weak boss
intelligent boss
smart boss
good looking boss
ugly boss
Whatever the categories of the boss, a boss should posses a good leadership ability and the aura of being able to be respected by his subordinates. Some bosses don't appreciate whatever his staff do but always keep on demanding for new things. There are bosses who himself doesn't have ideas and leadership character and too dependent on a few who are close to him (cronies) and promoting them. There are smart bosses who can lead and bring change to the organization.
Most often even if the boss is right, the officers won't see why certain things are done in that manner and not according to their wish. the boss of course has his own reasons because he is close to the top management or leadership where he sees from a bird's eye view point and not zooming in from one angle only.
Having said that there are bosses who shouldn't be the boss in the first place. they by promotion or seniority become the boss but are not able to lead. Weak in leadership and lack of ideas and most often following whatever the subordinates wants rather than the best option of the organization and this will lead to the collapse of an organization. That's why leader qualities of a boss is very crucial in the success of an organization.
Always reward those officers who have done good to the organization. Most often bosses forget the contribution of their staff. Bosses should always interact with their staff through functions and family days.
What's your view, especially my officers, if your reading this. don't be afraid, you know me by now. for others, if your the boss or subordinates you too can comment and share your views. thanks.
Coming back to the topic of boss. There are many types of bosses and some of them are:
Good boss
bad boss
stingy boss
polite boss
bossy boss
charismatic boss
weak boss
intelligent boss
smart boss
good looking boss
ugly boss
Whatever the categories of the boss, a boss should posses a good leadership ability and the aura of being able to be respected by his subordinates. Some bosses don't appreciate whatever his staff do but always keep on demanding for new things. There are bosses who himself doesn't have ideas and leadership character and too dependent on a few who are close to him (cronies) and promoting them. There are smart bosses who can lead and bring change to the organization.
Most often even if the boss is right, the officers won't see why certain things are done in that manner and not according to their wish. the boss of course has his own reasons because he is close to the top management or leadership where he sees from a bird's eye view point and not zooming in from one angle only.
Having said that there are bosses who shouldn't be the boss in the first place. they by promotion or seniority become the boss but are not able to lead. Weak in leadership and lack of ideas and most often following whatever the subordinates wants rather than the best option of the organization and this will lead to the collapse of an organization. That's why leader qualities of a boss is very crucial in the success of an organization.
Always reward those officers who have done good to the organization. Most often bosses forget the contribution of their staff. Bosses should always interact with their staff through functions and family days.
What's your view, especially my officers, if your reading this. don't be afraid, you know me by now. for others, if your the boss or subordinates you too can comment and share your views. thanks.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
crime and criminals
My friend requested to write about crime and criminals, because even in internet, chatrooms and fb there is an increasing number of people cheating and deceiving individuals.
Crime is the breach of rules or laws for which some governing authority i.e. the legal system. Modern societies generally regard crimes as offenses against the public or the state. Criminals are the person or individuals who commit those crimes. I'm not going to go detail defining of crimes or its history but more discuss why do people commit crime.
Realizing the increasing trend in crime rate the government increased efforts to combat crime. the National Key Result Area (NKRA) one area to focus is on reducing the crime rate in the country. But most of the steps taken are to strengthen police force and make the courts more efficient. But recently, we conducted a study to find the roots causes of crime. We did this because prevention is better than cure. Kill crime even before it is committed rather than protect people from crimes. Interviews were even done in prison to study the profile of criminals and understand why they commit crime.
Most of the reasons reveal that people become criminal is because of family background and the environment they were brought up. These crimes which we are going to discuss does involve isolated murder cases due revenge and jealousy as well as fraud.
The criminals are from poor family, they don't earn enough, they are jobless, low education level, broken family, drug addicts, friends and some consider it as profession and thrill.
So how are we going to resolve, we need to zoom into the district these criminals are from. Relevant authorities and NGOs need to talk with families and other similar families educate them. Youth without job are send to skill training centers and provide them with jobs. More counseling ta district level need to be conducted. dont allow people to indulge themselves in unwarranted activities. Those mat rempits and loitering youth should be given proper guidance and skills training. Poor families were given assistance to uplift their livelihood. Big families with small houses and no rooms be given assistance to extend their houses or provide with bigger houses so that youth prefer to stay in a conducive living environment.
Some commit crime because they want to get rich fast or live a lavish life. They cant find law biding activities or difficulty to earn enough money to support their lifestyle. That's why more and more white collar crimes are increasing. Even educated individuals turn to this kind of activities to finance all their luxuries.
Proper public counseling and education awareness program may make them realize their wrong doings. Finally, religion can be used to bring these people to the right path of life. Engaging the religious institutions is the most effective way to resolve crime problems. Because any religion you are from, you will resort to your religious entity such as mosque, church, temple or shrines to ask for forgiveness.
what are your views?
Crime is the breach of rules or laws for which some governing authority i.e. the legal system. Modern societies generally regard crimes as offenses against the public or the state. Criminals are the person or individuals who commit those crimes. I'm not going to go detail defining of crimes or its history but more discuss why do people commit crime.
Realizing the increasing trend in crime rate the government increased efforts to combat crime. the National Key Result Area (NKRA) one area to focus is on reducing the crime rate in the country. But most of the steps taken are to strengthen police force and make the courts more efficient. But recently, we conducted a study to find the roots causes of crime. We did this because prevention is better than cure. Kill crime even before it is committed rather than protect people from crimes. Interviews were even done in prison to study the profile of criminals and understand why they commit crime.
Most of the reasons reveal that people become criminal is because of family background and the environment they were brought up. These crimes which we are going to discuss does involve isolated murder cases due revenge and jealousy as well as fraud.
The criminals are from poor family, they don't earn enough, they are jobless, low education level, broken family, drug addicts, friends and some consider it as profession and thrill.
So how are we going to resolve, we need to zoom into the district these criminals are from. Relevant authorities and NGOs need to talk with families and other similar families educate them. Youth without job are send to skill training centers and provide them with jobs. More counseling ta district level need to be conducted. dont allow people to indulge themselves in unwarranted activities. Those mat rempits and loitering youth should be given proper guidance and skills training. Poor families were given assistance to uplift their livelihood. Big families with small houses and no rooms be given assistance to extend their houses or provide with bigger houses so that youth prefer to stay in a conducive living environment.
Some commit crime because they want to get rich fast or live a lavish life. They cant find law biding activities or difficulty to earn enough money to support their lifestyle. That's why more and more white collar crimes are increasing. Even educated individuals turn to this kind of activities to finance all their luxuries.
Proper public counseling and education awareness program may make them realize their wrong doings. Finally, religion can be used to bring these people to the right path of life. Engaging the religious institutions is the most effective way to resolve crime problems. Because any religion you are from, you will resort to your religious entity such as mosque, church, temple or shrines to ask for forgiveness.
what are your views?
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Small problems lead to bigger problem
There are many request from my blog followers to write about "baik dan Buruk", about boss and about power (kuasa). In this article i intend to talk about simple things that occur in our daily life. One of which is small problems or petty things are blown out of proportion becoming big problems. Sometimes, small things or issues are added up to become big problems. Even at times, you may be joking on certain things but to the other party they take it as a big issue. I will provide a few examples:
In a family, straining relationship between husband and wife, maybe due to the small problems. For example the hubby forgets the wife's birthday, they hubby criticizes the wife's family, the hubby's negative comments on the wife's attitude. After a while the wife may retaliate to leave the husband. On the other hand, for the husband he didn't intend or crosses his mind to leave his wife.
Sometimes to you it may sound like a joke but to the other person who is lsitening he may take it seriously. That's why never say things assuming everybody can buy-in to what you say. Sometimes you didn't mean something you have said but were wrongly interpretate things.
sometimes a small matter change in to a big problem. It may even be not your fault. Like a small pothole leading to a deadly accident. In offices this often occurs.
I hope you understand what i'am trying to tell. I'm not underestimating my readers but more often things happens. Some smart guy may ignore these petty things.
can you give specific examples in your family or your offices?
In a family, straining relationship between husband and wife, maybe due to the small problems. For example the hubby forgets the wife's birthday, they hubby criticizes the wife's family, the hubby's negative comments on the wife's attitude. After a while the wife may retaliate to leave the husband. On the other hand, for the husband he didn't intend or crosses his mind to leave his wife.
Sometimes to you it may sound like a joke but to the other person who is lsitening he may take it seriously. That's why never say things assuming everybody can buy-in to what you say. Sometimes you didn't mean something you have said but were wrongly interpretate things.
sometimes a small matter change in to a big problem. It may even be not your fault. Like a small pothole leading to a deadly accident. In offices this often occurs.
I hope you understand what i'am trying to tell. I'm not underestimating my readers but more often things happens. Some smart guy may ignore these petty things.
can you give specific examples in your family or your offices?
Monday, November 8, 2010
Sincerity....
Sincere means honest, innocent and mean things from the bottom of their heart. Opposite to sincerity is hypocrisy and cheating. Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.
The Oxford English Dictionary and most scholars state that sincerity is derived from the Latin sincerus meaning clean, pure, sound (1525–35)An often repeated folk etymology proposes that sincere is derived from the Latin sine = without, cera = wax. According to one popular explanation, dishonest sculptors in Rome or Greece would cover flaws in their work with wax to deceive the viewer; therefore, a sculpture "without wax" would mean honesty in its perfection.
Having explained the meaning of sincerity... we, more often find difficulty in spotting sincere soul among us. As more dynamic the world becomes, the more actors are among us rather than real pure soul.
There are less soul who will laugh when u laugh, who cries when u cry.... but there are many who laugh when u laugh and laugh when u cry.....
In office environment its even worst. they many souls who are nice to you. at the back they will be cursing you. I'm not telling everybody is like that but most.
What's your view my sincere and faithful readers??
The Oxford English Dictionary and most scholars state that sincerity is derived from the Latin sincerus meaning clean, pure, sound (1525–35)An often repeated folk etymology proposes that sincere is derived from the Latin sine = without, cera = wax. According to one popular explanation, dishonest sculptors in Rome or Greece would cover flaws in their work with wax to deceive the viewer; therefore, a sculpture "without wax" would mean honesty in its perfection.
Having explained the meaning of sincerity... we, more often find difficulty in spotting sincere soul among us. As more dynamic the world becomes, the more actors are among us rather than real pure soul.
There are less soul who will laugh when u laugh, who cries when u cry.... but there are many who laugh when u laugh and laugh when u cry.....
In office environment its even worst. they many souls who are nice to you. at the back they will be cursing you. I'm not telling everybody is like that but most.
What's your view my sincere and faithful readers??
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