There are many request from my blog followers to write about "baik dan Buruk", about boss and about power (kuasa). In this article i intend to talk about simple things that occur in our daily life. One of which is small problems or petty things are blown out of proportion becoming big problems. Sometimes, small things or issues are added up to become big problems. Even at times, you may be joking on certain things but to the other party they take it as a big issue. I will provide a few examples:
In a family, straining relationship between husband and wife, maybe due to the small problems. For example the hubby forgets the wife's birthday, they hubby criticizes the wife's family, the hubby's negative comments on the wife's attitude. After a while the wife may retaliate to leave the husband. On the other hand, for the husband he didn't intend or crosses his mind to leave his wife.
Sometimes to you it may sound like a joke but to the other person who is lsitening he may take it seriously. That's why never say things assuming everybody can buy-in to what you say. Sometimes you didn't mean something you have said but were wrongly interpretate things.
sometimes a small matter change in to a big problem. It may even be not your fault. Like a small pothole leading to a deadly accident. In offices this often occurs.
I hope you understand what i'am trying to tell. I'm not underestimating my readers but more often things happens. Some smart guy may ignore these petty things.
can you give specific examples in your family or your offices?
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