Do we need to be defensive

Most of the time people criticize us and we tend to deny as well as say we are on the right path. We will give 1001 reasons to explain that we doing the right things and we are basically right and no point arguing. Whoever says constructive things and are telling the truth, we presume that they are telling lies or their facts are not accurate. Why should we be so defensive and this infact obviously shows our weaknesses that we are in wrong. If nobody says anything and try to investigate the accusations then we are doing the right thing. If we are doing the right things, we shouldnt be afraid when a third party is evaluating our case.

But often not than most of the time individuals and companies or even politicians will argue against a third party report. There is a saying before pointing fingers at others, point your fingers to your face.

The question do we need to be so defensive when people say something us or the way we are doing things. not everybody is not sincere in this world. There are still who are sincere in making comments. Its on us to investigate and make wise judgement. Always suspecting others so we feel insecure. So try to be natural and listen positively to what they have to say about us. Negative means we need to improve ourselves and positive means we need to continuously work hard.