Its human nature to be defensive and try to prove whatever he/she has done is the right thing. Seldom people will agree that they have made mistakes but instead try to prove that they are right. U can notice this during meetings, discussions or even at mamak stalls. Sometimes there are people who comment on the weaknesses of their bosses and say "if its me i would have done this differently". Individuals usually try to project themselves as the best, even more so in the current competitive environment. Sometimes, even close frens will bad mouth U and spread gossips.
Oh gosh... I hate people who always like to praise themselves. They think they are always right. Come on we are not angels, we are mere human beings and no human is perfect, in itself shows that nobody will be 100% right all the time. For godsake change yourselves whoever u r...
We need to listen to others (also their criticisms: this goes to M) and may change our actions or decisions based on collective views.
I respect those who admit their mistakes and try to improve on it and not repeating them. It take guts to say u r sorry.
Now, talking about sorry.... i always quote the phrase from the famous movie "Love Story" that "love means you never have to say you are sorry" . But my close fren Christine always says that Love means Sacrifice. So what do you think of Love....... any new definitions
2 comments:
m? i read her and i think she's fan-bloody-tastic! :)
i agree with christine. funny how we could have the same sort of definition on love. love means sacrifice. it was even written in the Holy Quran, if you love your God, you would die for Him. isn't that sacrifice?
that "love story" of yours reminded me of perfect competition. fictional and only works in theory. being positive is good. but it helps sometimes, to be realistic now and then.
good day.
love is, the one topic that everybody can share an opinion or two :)
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