Manusia selalu kata mereka hanya ingin hidup senang tanpa kesusahan dalam perjalanan kehidupan ini. Tetapi manusia sering lupa dalam mencari kesenangan akan mengejar kemewahan dan seterusnya kekayaan.
Kenapa aku pilih topik ini kali ini. Manusia dewasa ini menyimpang dari matlamat hidupnya. Apa yang kita cari dalam kehidupan seharian. Kita mahu hidup senang, cukup makan, ada tempat tinggal..punyai keluarga dan dapat menampung keperluan keluarga termasuk membesarkan anak2 dan hingga mereka kahwin dan mempunyai keluarga sendiri, dan akhirnya kita mati. Dalam perjalanan hidup yang singkat ini, kita juga mesti taat kepada ajaran agama dengan melaksanakan tanggungjawab terhadap allah dan disamping itu, menjalankan kehidupan seharian mengikut lunas-lunas yang ditetapkan oleh agama. adakah setiap kita mengikuti landasan ini...setiap hari sekurang-kurangnya seminit pun cukup merenung sebelum membuat sesuatu adakah kita dilandasan yang betul.
Aku menulis ini bukan nak kata aku 100 percent sempurna. Aku pun ingin mengikut landasan yang betul.
Ramai yang ku temui dalam perjalanan ini...samada di office, di FB, di shopping mall dan di mana2 aje, manusia kejar kekayaan. Gadis yang mahu kemewahan lalu sangat materialistik. Bila bicara aje, soalan pertama akan ditanya kerja apa, bisness apa, pakai kereta apa, tinggal dikawasan mana - banglo kah. Mereka tidak akan tanya sama ada kita sihat, sudah ke mekah atau tentang keluarga kita.
Kemana semua kekayaan kita akan pergi. Adakah akan ikut kita ke dalam tanah. Bukan maksud ku supaya kita tidak berusaha mencari harta dunia tapi harus berlandaskan cara yang betul mengikut ajaran agama. Kalau kamu kaya raya, billionaire, syukur alhamudillah. Itu pun aku hormat kamu kerana usaha gigih mencari harta seimbang dengan lunas2 agama. Banyak sudah ku tulis malam ini, baikku berhenti disini.
DOAKU
Aku doa padamu Ya Allah yang maha Esa lindungi semua insan yang mengenaliku dan seluruh umat didunia ini, tempatkan kedudukan yang tinggi kepada Nabi Mohammad dan sahabat2, juga ampun dosa kawan2 yang telah pergi dulu. Bagi ibubapaku dan abangku yang bukan beragama Islam dan sudah tiada dibumi ini aku pohon keampunanMu Ya Allah.
Ya Allah ambillah segalanya dariku, tetapi jangan ambil Islam dariku yang engkau telah berikan.
Sunday, February 20, 2011
what's life.......
People say life is a journey....
i'm not going to write life according to religion or science but more
what i think life is all about. I wrote many times on this subject
but i feel i need to write again....
The more i chat with people in FB, the more i find all kind of characters. Some are just killing time,some searching for old time frens, some seeking new love and some even finding ways to cheat others. whats your reason of joining fb.
Life is very short. Life can be difficult if you treat life to be difficult.
Life can be enjoyable if you make life interesting.
Whatever you do never hurt others.
Never depend too much on others.
Always be patience in what ever you do
Like i said life is short in this world.
The real long term life is waiting for you in the hereafter (akhirat)
The journey of life in this temporary world may be tough. Thus some may take short-cut. There is no short-cut in life.
Life is also very amazing.....out of the blue..you may meet friends whom you never met for 40 years. Friends of the past during your school days. Some may know you. some may try to ignore you. Some may think you want to take advantage of them so they ignore you. some are shy because they didn't do well in life. some you only now realize that they have left this world and gone into another world.
Whatever life is... it is meant to be mysterious, interesting, painful, joyful, tough, adventurous and challenging. It all depend on how we design it, steering it and reach the final destination.
i'm not going to write life according to religion or science but more
what i think life is all about. I wrote many times on this subject
but i feel i need to write again....
The more i chat with people in FB, the more i find all kind of characters. Some are just killing time,some searching for old time frens, some seeking new love and some even finding ways to cheat others. whats your reason of joining fb.
Life is very short. Life can be difficult if you treat life to be difficult.
Life can be enjoyable if you make life interesting.
Whatever you do never hurt others.
Never depend too much on others.
Always be patience in what ever you do
Like i said life is short in this world.
The real long term life is waiting for you in the hereafter (akhirat)
The journey of life in this temporary world may be tough. Thus some may take short-cut. There is no short-cut in life.
Life is also very amazing.....out of the blue..you may meet friends whom you never met for 40 years. Friends of the past during your school days. Some may know you. some may try to ignore you. Some may think you want to take advantage of them so they ignore you. some are shy because they didn't do well in life. some you only now realize that they have left this world and gone into another world.
Whatever life is... it is meant to be mysterious, interesting, painful, joyful, tough, adventurous and challenging. It all depend on how we design it, steering it and reach the final destination.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Immature
Immature can be anything...from biological immaturity to technological immaturity. But what i want to talk is on immature thinking or characters. Some says immature means emotionally undeveloped or childish. Immature means acting in way or saying things in a manner where generally others can't make sense of it and moreover it is awkward than normal reasoning.
Having said that, I tend to like some immaturity in a character, I think it makes them seem more human. Even an 80 year old man may say things which sound immature to you. At times people utter words without carefully thinking or analyzing and that may sound immature to you. Things which happen once or twice doesn't mean that a person is immature. People like Obama, Clinton, Bush sometimes say things which sound immature but we cannot say that they are immature.
Most of the time, in comedy movies the leading characters are portrayed as foolish and childish. Directors do this to create interest and fun in the characters and some audience love it. Can we call the directors and actors as immature.
Generalizing, someone as immature in itself shows how immature we are.
Having said that, I tend to like some immaturity in a character, I think it makes them seem more human. Even an 80 year old man may say things which sound immature to you. At times people utter words without carefully thinking or analyzing and that may sound immature to you. Things which happen once or twice doesn't mean that a person is immature. People like Obama, Clinton, Bush sometimes say things which sound immature but we cannot say that they are immature.
Most of the time, in comedy movies the leading characters are portrayed as foolish and childish. Directors do this to create interest and fun in the characters and some audience love it. Can we call the directors and actors as immature.
Generalizing, someone as immature in itself shows how immature we are.
Friday, February 4, 2011
Positive Thinking vs Reality
Today I want to write about a topic which i had a rather not good conversation. Dhe feels i'm immature, well that's her opinion. I thought in this free world everybody is entitle to their own belief and opinion. We should others opinion and never say that they are weird or even worst calling them 'immature'. Well that's life not everybody understand you but its okay some one who reads this will appreciate.
The conversation begins, me telling her about my current encounter in life, surrounded by jealousy and people telling lies about me. She said take things positively. She believes in positive thinking and couldn't be bothered about what others say. She like to mix with people with positive attitude and never talks about others. I do agree with her that's good attitude. But what I was telling her was about somebody who is so jealous about me in reality and should i take it as positive. The conversation went into disagreement. Anyway for me its good to have differing opinions. But calling me weird and immature that's too much. In the first place is it the positive attitude which she believes in?
Let me briefly write a bit on positive thinking. Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Positive thinking helps with stress management and can even improve your health. Overcome negative self-talk by recognizing it. Self-talk is the endless stream of thoughts that run through your head every day. These automatic thoughts can be positive or negative. Some of your self-talk comes from logic and reason. Other self-talk may arise from misconceptions that you create because of lack of information. If the thoughts that run through your head are mostly negative, your outlook on life is more likely pessimistic. If your thoughts are mostly positive, you're likely an optimist — someone who practices positive thinking.
Researchers continue to explore the effects of positive thinking and optimism on health. Health benefits that positive thinking may provide include:
* Increased life span
* Lower rates of depression
* Lower levels of distress
* Greater resistance to the common cold
* Better psychological and physical well-being
* Reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
* Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress
Those explanation on positive are all taken from the Internet. But not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it. There's nothing wrong with positive thinking (actually, it's key) but positive thought in a vacuum, without an active approach to any given agenda, is useless. Thought creates, but only in partnership with action. We don't want ending having a "false sense of the positive". Now comes the Reality. If one keeps on having positive thinking but in reality he suffers than positive thinking alone won't help.
Sometimes its also god for human beings to think about all the negative things in life in order to avoid it from repeating again or making the same mistakes again. History repeats itself. In Quran or Bible, God repeats certain verses; to remind human because they repeat the same mistake again and again.
I'm not telling, I'm great and always right. The same thing goes to others including her. Respect others views though its right or wrong. We don't know what others are experiencing in life. Simply throwing some advice may help sometimes but on the other hand, it may hurt them further.
The conversation begins, me telling her about my current encounter in life, surrounded by jealousy and people telling lies about me. She said take things positively. She believes in positive thinking and couldn't be bothered about what others say. She like to mix with people with positive attitude and never talks about others. I do agree with her that's good attitude. But what I was telling her was about somebody who is so jealous about me in reality and should i take it as positive. The conversation went into disagreement. Anyway for me its good to have differing opinions. But calling me weird and immature that's too much. In the first place is it the positive attitude which she believes in?
Let me briefly write a bit on positive thinking. Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Positive thinking helps with stress management and can even improve your health. Overcome negative self-talk by recognizing it. Self-talk is the endless stream of thoughts that run through your head every day. These automatic thoughts can be positive or negative. Some of your self-talk comes from logic and reason. Other self-talk may arise from misconceptions that you create because of lack of information. If the thoughts that run through your head are mostly negative, your outlook on life is more likely pessimistic. If your thoughts are mostly positive, you're likely an optimist — someone who practices positive thinking.
Researchers continue to explore the effects of positive thinking and optimism on health. Health benefits that positive thinking may provide include:
* Increased life span
* Lower rates of depression
* Lower levels of distress
* Greater resistance to the common cold
* Better psychological and physical well-being
* Reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
* Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress
Those explanation on positive are all taken from the Internet. But not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it. There's nothing wrong with positive thinking (actually, it's key) but positive thought in a vacuum, without an active approach to any given agenda, is useless. Thought creates, but only in partnership with action. We don't want ending having a "false sense of the positive". Now comes the Reality. If one keeps on having positive thinking but in reality he suffers than positive thinking alone won't help.
Sometimes its also god for human beings to think about all the negative things in life in order to avoid it from repeating again or making the same mistakes again. History repeats itself. In Quran or Bible, God repeats certain verses; to remind human because they repeat the same mistake again and again.
I'm not telling, I'm great and always right. The same thing goes to others including her. Respect others views though its right or wrong. We don't know what others are experiencing in life. Simply throwing some advice may help sometimes but on the other hand, it may hurt them further.
Monday, January 24, 2011
Primary School Friends - Never met more than 40 years ago
Today, I had a gathering of my primary school mates of whom, some i have never met more than 40 years ago. We met at Putrajaya Club house and had lunch there. we met for about 3 hours. Shared old photos and moments of fun we had together in our primary school - Islah English School in Kota Bharu, Kelantan. Altogether we manage to gather 11 of us, may be some other time in the future the number will increase. I hardly recognise most of them, grown old and most of them with grey and white color hair except for one of them who still look young.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Faces of human beings
Human beings are created by Almighty Allah with great superiority over other living beings especially in using their mental ability not only to rule the world but race among them to be the best. Apart from mental ability human are gifted with look, in that each of them different features. Although they may be some individuals with similar face appearances but usually each of them differ from one another.
Some says we can read peoples mind just by seeing their faces. The face tells what is inside the soul of a person. Faces also indicate whether the person is a kind person, fierce, strict, playful, pious, loving and so on. Again, from another perspective, one says 'don't judge a book by its cover'. Meaning to say don't draw conclusion from the look of a person.
Whatever said its difficult to judge a person. He or she maybe nice and good to you at the outset but inside its another story. Most often we here people say, my closest friend betrayed me. So in life, we treat everybody equal and nice but how they treat us leave it to them. One day truth will come outside. God knows the best.
Some says we can read peoples mind just by seeing their faces. The face tells what is inside the soul of a person. Faces also indicate whether the person is a kind person, fierce, strict, playful, pious, loving and so on. Again, from another perspective, one says 'don't judge a book by its cover'. Meaning to say don't draw conclusion from the look of a person.
Whatever said its difficult to judge a person. He or she maybe nice and good to you at the outset but inside its another story. Most often we here people say, my closest friend betrayed me. So in life, we treat everybody equal and nice but how they treat us leave it to them. One day truth will come outside. God knows the best.
Friday, January 7, 2011
5 Hari Memegang Jawatan Baru
Hari ini Jumaat, 7 Januari 2011, sudah 5 hari aku memasuki pejabat baru dengan PA baru dan PAR baru tetapi driver lama. Suasana agak senyap sunyi di Tingkat 10 berbanding tingkat 9 yang selalunya penuh lively. Saya selau kata; the higher you move the lonely you get. Kata-kata itu benar kerana kawan seharian makin berkurangan. kalau mahu kita harus mencari kawan.
Di tingkat 9 aku harus memikir memerah otak, tetapi disini kurang fikir tetapi membuat keputusan strategik dengan pantas. Fail bertimbun-timbun masuk setiap hari, aku pantas bereskan semuanya. Dealing dengan syarikat swasta dan agensi bermacam-macam. Satu perkara ku perhati ramai yang cuba menegakkan "benang yang basah". Selalunya walaupun dipihak yang salah mereka cuba mengatakan yang mereka itu betul. Ada pula firma konsultan boleh ajer menyesuaikan penemuan-penemuan mereka mengikut kehendak client mereka tanpa mempedulikan kebenaran. So maka menjadi lebih rumit hidup ini bergelut dan berdebat dengan golongan seumpama ini.
Bagiku seperti biasa kepentingan negara mendahului segala-gala kepentingan lain termasuk individu atau syarikat.
Di tingkat 9 aku harus memikir memerah otak, tetapi disini kurang fikir tetapi membuat keputusan strategik dengan pantas. Fail bertimbun-timbun masuk setiap hari, aku pantas bereskan semuanya. Dealing dengan syarikat swasta dan agensi bermacam-macam. Satu perkara ku perhati ramai yang cuba menegakkan "benang yang basah". Selalunya walaupun dipihak yang salah mereka cuba mengatakan yang mereka itu betul. Ada pula firma konsultan boleh ajer menyesuaikan penemuan-penemuan mereka mengikut kehendak client mereka tanpa mempedulikan kebenaran. So maka menjadi lebih rumit hidup ini bergelut dan berdebat dengan golongan seumpama ini.
Bagiku seperti biasa kepentingan negara mendahului segala-gala kepentingan lain termasuk individu atau syarikat.
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