Isteri....

Bila tulis pasal perempuan ada follower blog ini suruh saya tulis pasal WIFE (ISTERI). so supaya tak menghampakan pembaca kali ini saya tulis pasal wanita bernama isteri.

Isteri merupakan gadis atau wanita tarafnya sudah mempunyai ikatan dengan seorang lelaki melalui perkahwinan. Ini secara rasmi, ada juga zaman sekarang yang tak berkahwin tetapi tinggal bersama sebagi suami isteri. Mereka biasanya bercinta ataupun pilihan ibubapa terpaksa jadi suami isteri.

Tanggungjawab dan tugas seorang isteri adalah amat berat. Isteri harus jaga suami dan sebagai ibu kepada anak2 terpaksa jaga anak2. Di samping itu, sebagai anak kepada keluarganya sendiri harus menjaga ibubapanya dan sebagai menantu pula harus menjaga hati mentua. Manakala sebaga pengurus rumahtangga (kadangkala isteri kenali home manager tau home minister. Isteri juga terpaksa melayani semua kerenah seorang suami selain menyediakan makanan dan meguruskan pakaiannya, dia juga harus memuaskan nafkah batin seorang suami. Bila mengandungkan anak, terpaksa menanggung segala kesakitan disamping menjaga anak dalam kandungan lahir dengan selamat. Membesarkan seorang anak dari baby, hingga remaja dan seterusnya bekerja dan berkahwin, seorang isterilah yang akan memainkan peranan penting supaya semuanya berjalan dengan lancar. Sekiranya seorang anak sakit isterilah akan menjaganya hingga dia sembuh.Tambah2 di zaman sekarang seorang isteri selain menjalankan semua tanggungjawab berat tersebut di atas juga terpaksa keluar berkerja membantu suami mencari nafkah supaya institusi keluarga lebih kukuh dan berjaya.

Bagi diriku seorang isteri bagaikan Lilin membakar diri menerangi hidup semua orang dalam sebuah keluarga.

Setelah kata2 baik di atas, ada juga isteri yang tidak setia kepada keluarga. Isteri yang meninggalkan tanggungjawabnya, lari daripada rumah, anak entah kemana dan suami kemana...tetapi ini jarang berlaku. Dalam seribu satu. Biasanya yang menimbulkan masalah adalah suami. Saya cakap begini bukan untuk menyenangkan hati sesiapa tetapi satu kebenaran.

Isteri pun ada banyak Kategori isteri....

isteri mithali
isteri penyayang
isteri jalang
isteri main kayu tiga
isteri kontrol (queen control)
isteri lemah lembut
isteri garang
isteri rock
isteri kampung
isteri kolot
isteri modern
isteri material
isteri maharaja
isteri penakut
isteri pertama
isteri kedua
isteri ketiga
iseri berpangkat
isteri kaya
isteri kedekut
isteri solehah
isteri muda
isteri tua
isteri cantik
isteri model
isteri curang
isteri ganas


wow banyaknya jenis isteri...masih banyak lagi kategorinya.......
walau apa pun, isteri bagi saya adalah orang paling penting dalam keluarga. Dia penentu kejayaan sesebuah keluarga. Dia mainkan peranan menarik semua tali ikatan persaudaraan menjadi satu. Dia menguruskan rumahtangga suami dan anak-anak. Anak2 menjadi orang berguna kelak adalah atas kebijaksanaan seorang isteri. Suami kebanyakannya habis masa diluar rumah manakala isteri yang menghabiskan masa dirumah. Isteri tahu segala masalah dalam rumahtangga. Iaterilah pendidik untama anak-anak. Anak-anak pun ingin berkongsi masalah dengan isteri/ibu dan bukan dengan suami/ayah. Ayah biasanya garang dan tidak mempunyai masa untuk berbual dgn anak2.

Isteri yang baik, setia, bertanggungjawab dan penyayang akan pastikan rumahtanga berjaya. Segala doaku kepada mu wahai insan bernama ISTERI.

Perempuan........

Seorang kawan rapat suruh saya tulis pasal perempuan.... seperti biasa i bagi definisi pasal wanita dan asal usul wanita. Then i tulis laa ciri2 wanita. Mesti tulisan kali ini akan jadi blockbuster seperti tulisan i pasal CINTA.

Perempuan adalah species manusia selain daripada lelaki. Perempuan juga dipanggil wanita dan masa remaja dikenali sebagai gadis. Biasanya seorang budak perempuan mencapai puberti pada umur 10 tahun dan cukup umur atau bermula kitaran menstural pada umur sekitar 12 atau 13 tahun.

Dalam Islam wanita pertama adalah Hawa, dia dicipta Allah darpada tulang rusuk Adam. Wanita adalah sebagai pasangan dan companion kepada lelaki. Mengikut Quran..Adam initiated the fruit eating and that both Adam and Eve (Hawa) ate the forbidden fruit, for which God later forgave them, and then sent both of them down to earth as his representatives. Maka bermula...manusia bertambah melalui reproduksi. Dari segi biologi, Organ seks wanita adalah berlainan drp lelaki. Tak payah i citer detail yang ni semua wanita dan lelaki tahu.....

Now, semua lelaki sanjung wanita yg bernama IBU kerana betapa susah payah ibu mengandung anak selama sembilan bulan. Betapa sakit bila melahirkan anak dan siang mlm menjaga untuk membesarkan anak dan melindungi drp segala malapetaka. Sebab tu dikata Syurga dikaki ibu....Seorg anak walau lelaki atau perempuan akan sayang kepada IBU mereka.

Bila lelaki dah dewasa dia kahwin dengan perempuan maka timbul laa pula wanita bernama isteri...Isteri samada dikahwini atas dasar cinta atau pilihan keluarga akan menjadi ibu kepada anak2nya. Dengannya isteri timbul pula masalah antara menantu dan ibu mertua. Kedua-duanya berebut mendapat perhatian si anak oleh ibu yg juga merupakan suami kepada menantu.

Ini bahagian yg interesting. Mungkin ramai wanita diluar sana tak setuju dgn i. Well setiap insan ada pendapatnya sendiri dan berhak menyatakan apa yg difikirkan.

Antara perkara yg negatif pasal wanita adalah... Wanita pada kebiasaanya dikata lebih lemah drp lelaki. Lebih vulnerable. Kebanyakan wanita yg saya kenali cepat melatah dan tak sabar. Bila keadaan tension, perempuan lebih banyak bising dan cepat melenting drp lelaki. Ada wanita yg lebih garang drp lelaki. kadangkala di atas jln raya..ada wanita yg jadi bully jln raya.

perkara baik tentang wanita... secara amnya wanita lebih penyayang drp lelaki, pegawai wanita lebih tekun kerja drp lelaki dan mereka juga meticulous dan tedious berbanding pegawai lelaki. wanita secara amnya banyak meyumbang kepada kebahagiaan sesebuah keluarga.

Pertalian persaudaraan dengan wanita dan antaranya dikenali....
ibu
isteri
anak perempuan
ibu mertua
mmenantu perempuan
emak saudara
nenek
kakak
adik perempuan
janda
kekasih wanita

Dalam dunia ni juga ada pelbagai character wanita atau perempuan....antaranya

wanita pisau cukur
pelacur (ada juga pelacur lelaki gigolo)
cikgu (wanita)
perempuan jalang
perempuan malang
perempuan ganas
srikandi
puan
tenaganita
siswi
puteri
permaisuri
penkid
sugarmummy
jururawat ( skerg dah ada jururawat lelaki)

ada banyak lagi..kategori.....

walau apa pun bagi diriku perempuan dan lelaki sama saja dari segi perangai....ada yang baik dan ada yang jahat.Perempuan pun boleh buat keje yang sebelum ini dibolot oleh kaum lelaki sahaja. Dari segi pemikiran, kecerdikan dan kepantas dalam semua hal perempuan sudah sama dengan lelaki. So tidak timbul soal diskriminasi. Kita treat both lelaki dan wanita samer ajer....

oklaaa.....dah penat memikir.....cukup buat kali niiii
so apa pendapat para pembaca blog ni yang budiman....
tentang insan.....bernama PEREMPUAN......

Marriage.....

Marriage is a union between man and woman through legal contract, cultural or religious arrangements. Marriage practices are very diverse across cultures, yet almost every known society has had some form of marriage between a man and a woman. In some societies an individual is limited to being in one such couple at a time (monogamy), while other cultures allow a male to have more than one wife (polygamy) or, less commonly, a female to have more than one husband (polyandry).

There are many types of marriages:

1.runaway marriage (kahwin lari)
2.cowboy marriage (kahwin koboi)
3.forced marriage (kahwin paksa)
4.kahwin gantung
5.contract marriage (kahwin kontrak)
6.arranged marriage (perkahwinan yang diatur)
7.chinese marriage (Perkahwinan Cina - pengaturan antara keluarga)
8.common law marriage (Perkahwinan common law - kelas taraf antara perorangan)
9.digital marriage (Perkahwinan digital - dua orang yang bertemu dalam komuniti maya)
10.fleet marriage (Perkahwinan Fleet)
11.group marriage (Perkahwinan kelompok)
12.Levirate marriage (Perkahwinan levirat - adik kahwin dgn janda abang)
13.leisure marriage (Perkahwinan untuk masa lapang dan kesenangan)
14.Morganatic marriage (Perkahwinan morganatik -antara orang bangsawan dengan gundik)
15.open marriage (Perkahwinan terbuka)
16. same gender marriage (Perkahwinan sama jantina)
17. sororate marriage (Perkahwinan sororat - husband marrying wife's sister after her death)
18. secret marriage (kahwin rahsia)
19 caught marriage (kahwin tangkap)
20. dream marriage (kahwin mimpi)

People marry for many reasons, including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious. Of course, some marry for money, some for sexual needs and some to have off-springs.

There many kind of marriages. Arranged marriage by parents. Love marriages between two lovers. Some say it's better for their family to find the right partner for them. Another school of thought, believes you should fall in love, understand a person you get married and live for ever with the partner. Both marriages have their good and bad points.

Ii is also said marriage and divorce is fated, decided by God. Some marry only one wife and till death do they depart. Other men tend to have more than one wife.

Nowadays, people find it difficult to get a good life partner, not only in terms of financial security but also in possessing good character. You only discover your partners bad attitude after marriage. As more and more people are not getting married.

Some even marry the gender i.e. woman marrying woman (lesbian) and men having men as their partners (gay).

For me marriage is something beautiful and it is important that you manage properly. The managing of a marriage is very delicate. Some marriage does not survive very long. Marriage is like boat...how you manage it and guide t to the destination of happiness. They say don't rock boat....overcome ups and downs...to reach the destination successful.

There many more things we can write on marriage but i think i better stop here to hear " What do you think of marriage?"

What's life all about......

Last time i wrote about love....there were lots of responses. So i thought why not write about life. What's life all about. where were we before we came into this world. what's the purpose of living. Why are we breathing right now. These are some of the questions we keep on asking... there answers from religious perspectives, from logical perspective and even your won individual opinion.

we take on one by one. Whats life all about. Live is like a journey. There is a starting point and ending destination. Shakespeare said life is like a stage where actors take up different roles and start to act and when the play is over, everybody leaves the stage.

I'm not a ustaz but to my humble knowledge, in Islam, the roh is put into the fetus 40 days after conception. We are brought into this world and go through a life. There will be judgment day after Qiamat (end of the world). Those who do good, be obedient and pious will be rewarded in the hereafter, to be placed in heaven. On the other hand, those who are bad, doesn't believe in god or pray will be send to hell.
Life in this world is temporary, but life hereafter is permanent. Christianity is similar to Islam, only that they believe, Jesus as the son of God.

Life in Buddhism and Hinduism they do believe in reincarnation. If you do bad in this life you will be reborn in a lower category such as animal species.

Whatever religion you are born to or u believe in, they teach good things and preach human to do good.

For me, life is a test. Only this test there is no objective or subjective questions to answer. All you have to do, is practical exam. Practice and show all the good things you can do. Make everybody happy, never hurt any soul, believe in God.

what do you think about life.......

Bola...bola..bola

Oleh kerana permintaan my blog follower "SUNDAY" supaya saya tulis pasal Bola....entry ini khas untuknya.

Semalam i gi tengok bola kelantan lawan n9. I tidak beli tiket last minute rasa nak gi tengok. Maklum i di lahir dan dibesarkan di kelantan walaupun ibubapa orgh perak. I anggap diri i anak kelate wpun keluargaku adalah org perak. So i contact my fren di KBS, dia ajak sebagai jemputan VVIP dok dalam VIP box, glass room behind VIP seats. Of course very exclusive with food and drinks. Dalam room tuu ramai penyokong N9 but i tak kisah, i pakai muffler written "The Red Warriors". First half i tak keluar drp bilik ke open air and kelantan was trailing behind 1-0. Somebody said...dato' pergi laa luar sokong kelantan mesti menang/ So i keluar ajer second half...wow game changed.....kelantan won 2-1. Sorakan dan riuh rendah serta percikan bunga api dan letupan mercun, aduhhh rasa mcm di Spain - Watching real madrid lwn Barcelona. According to Mingguan Malaysia:

" Malah Wira Merah mengakhiri penantian yang sekian lama selepas dihampakan dalam perlawanan akhir 1955, 1970 dan tahun lalu sekali gus mengekori Perak, Selangor, Pulau Pinang, Pahang, Johor, Kuala Lumpur, Kedah, Terengganu, Perlis dan Negeri Sembilan sebagai 11 negeri pemilik Piala Malaysia sejak 1967".

Untuk peminat gila bolasepak atau football di UK dan soccer di US...sedikit sejarah mengenai asal usual bolasepak.

The modern rules of football are based on the mid-19th century efforts to standardise the widely varying forms of football played at the public schools of England. The history of football in England dates back to at least the Middle Ages.

The Cambridge Rules, first drawn up at Cambridge University in 1848, were particularly influential in the development of subsequent codes, including association football. The Cambridge Rules were written at Trinity College, Cambridge, at a meeting attended by representatives from Eton, Harrow, Rugby, Winchester and Shrewsbury schools. They were not universally adopted. During the 1850s, many clubs unconnected to schools or universities were formed throughout the English-speaking world, to play various forms of football. Some came up with their own distinct codes of rules, most notably the Sheffield Football Club, formed by former public school pupils in 1857, which led to formation of a Sheffield FA in 1867. In 1862, John Charles Thring of Uppingham School also devised an influential set of rules.

These ongoing efforts contributed to the formation of The Football Association (The FA) in 1863, which first met on the morning of 26 October 1863 at the Freemasons' Tavern in Great Queen Street, London. The only school to be represented on this occasion was Charterhouse. The Freemason's Tavern was the setting for five more meetings between October and December, which eventually produced the first comprehensive set of rules. At the final meeting, the first FA treasurer, the representative from Blackheath, withdrew his club from the FA over the removal of two draft rules at the previous meeting: the first allowed for running with the ball in hand; the second for obstructing such a run by hacking (kicking an opponent in the shins), tripping and holding. Other English rugby football clubs followed this lead and did not join the FA, or subsequently left the FA and instead in 1871 formed the Rugby Football Union. The eleven remaining clubs, under the charge of Ebenezer Cobb Morley, went on to ratify the original thirteen laws of the game. These rules included handling of the ball by "marks" and the lack of a crossbar, rules which made it remarkably similar to Victorian rules football being developed at that time in Australia. The Sheffield FA played by its own rules until the 1870s with the FA absorbing some of its rules until there was little difference between the games.

The laws of the game are currently determined by the International Football Association Board (IFAB). The Board was formed in 1886 after a meeting in Manchester of The Football Association, the Scottish Football Association, the Football Association of Wales, and the Irish Football Association. The world's oldest football competition is the FA Cup, which was founded by C. W. Alcock and has been contested by English teams since 1872. The first official international football match took place in 1872 between Scotland and England in Glasgow, again at the instigation of C. W. Alcock. England is home to the world's first football league, which was founded in Birmingham in 1888 by Aston Villa director William McGregor. The original format contained 12 clubs from the Midlands and the North of England. FIFA, the international football body, was formed in Paris in 1904 and declared that they would adhere to Laws of the Game of the Football Association. The growing popularity of the international game led to the admittance of FIFA representatives to the International Football Association Board in 1913. The board currently consists of four representatives from FIFA and one representative from each of the four British associations.

Today, football is played at a professional level all over the world. Millions of people regularly go to football stadiums to follow their favourite teams, while billions more watch the game on television or on the internet. A very large number of people also play football at an amateur level. According to a survey conducted by FIFA published in 2001, over 240 million people from more than 200 countries regularly play football. While football has the highest global television audience in sport, its simple rules and minimal equipment requirements at amateur level, have no doubt aided its growth in terms of participation.

In many parts of the world football evokes great passions and plays an important role in the life of individual fans, local communities, and even nations. The Côte d'Ivoire national football team helped secure a truce to the nation's civil war in 2006 and it helped further reduce tensions between government and rebel forces in 2007 by playing a match in the rebel capital of Bouaké, an occasion that brought both armies together peacefully for the first time. By contrast, football is widely considered to be the final proximate cause in the Football War in June 1969 between El Salvador and Honduras.[24] The sport also exacerbated tensions at the beginning of the Yugoslav wars of the 1990s, when a match between Dinamo Zagreb and Red Star Belgrade devolved into rioting in March 1990.

Happy halloween....... kenangan lama di US

I tulis pasal hantu sebab 31 October adalah hari haloween. Semasa dok di US kita orang dress-up menakutkan dan bawa pumpkin dengan api lilin. Enjoy gak tengok kanak2 bersuka ria. Of course, dalam Islam, ini semua mengarutkan tapi kita orang just main suka2..

Halloween is an annual holiday observed on October 31, primarily in the United States, Canada, Ireland, and the United Kingdom. Common Halloween activities include trick-or-treating, wearing costumes and attending costume parties, carving jack-o'-lanterns, ghost tours, bonfires, apple bobbing, visiting haunted attractions, committing pranks, telling ghost stories or other frightening tales, and watching horror films.

Di malaysia, kita tidak celebrate haloween. Cuma dikalangan orang Cina Malaysia ada sembahyang untuk hantu. The Chinese Ghost Festival has similarities to Halloween in US and is sometimes called Chinese Halloween. It’s also similar to the Mexican “Day of the Dead” and is sometimes called the "All Souls Festival." For Chinese Buddhists, it is known as Ullambana, or the “Hungry Ghost Festival.”

Apa pendapat anda tentang Haloween....

HANTU......GHOST

Wanna write about ghost. According to wikipedia "a ghost is the soul or spirit of a deceased person or animal, taken to be capable of appearing in visible form or otherwise manifesting itself to the living." U can visit this side to watch video clips of ghost. http://www.ghostsandstories.com/ghost-caught-on-video.html. In Malaysia, ghost is known as hantu. There are many kind of ghosts/ hantu.
1. Pontianak
2. Polong -
3. Toyol - hantu kanak-kanak bogel
4. Pelesit - boleh dipelihara
5. Hantu air - dalam air
6. Hantu raya - boleh dipelihara
7. Hantu bungkus - makhluk ghaib yang dilihat berbungkus dalam kain kafan.
8. Langsuir - perempuan
9. Bota - makhluk besar hodoh menjelma dari dalam tanah.
10. Bajang - makhluk aneh
11. Bunian, Kerajaan dan keluarga Bunian.
12. Hantu Jepun
13. Hantu bukit
14. Hantu kubur
15. Pari-pari
16. Hantu punjut
17. Jerangkung
18. Hantu laut
19. Hantu galah
20. Jin Tanah
21. Hantu Keramat
22. Hantu Kum-Kum
23. Hantu Bungkus
24. Orang minyak
25. Puaka
26. Penanggalan
27. Pocong
28. Hantu bidai
29. Hantu kopek
30. Hantu Tetek
31. Harimau jadian
32. Jembalang tanah
33. Hantu tengelong

Wow there are so many. Pontianak is the most notorious. Malays believe this ghost wears all white and revenge on humans. There is this toyol..young naked baby. Bunian is another species similar to human..living among humans but not seen by us..they have their own world. There are stories that human are brought to bunian's world and some are trapped there forever. In Putrajaya, there are lot of stories of bunian. In Governemnt buildings you can hear kids playing...sometimes man walking....seen by some but not others in the same area. Scary.

Do you have any ghost story to share with???