Some are lucky and some are...........

Life is like a journey.... some says there are ups and down in this journey.
Some are lucky because they are born rich. Where as others maybe born in very poor family and of course, there maybe some are in between the two. Wherever or whoever they are born, they makes take and make this journey before the final call comes.

They usually say that the ones born to a rich family lives happily and with all the luxury. On the other hand the poor had to go through a tough journey before they reach success. Most of them will not achieve the success or whatever they have dream of. very few make it to the top. On the other hand the rich ones, fed in silver spoon will usually have happy life. But again not all the rich will be happy always but most of the time they do.

Rich or poor this is the game of the world. All government have this sincere feelings of helping their people. But there is a limit to how much can do. Individulas have to stand on their own feet.

I will stress more on the poor rather than the rich. The poor had to improve themselves. there are many opportunity in the world for them to move up the value chain. Should not leave everything to fate. Fight and overcome any obstacle blocking your way to the journey of success.

Goodluck

Tension or no tension

Everybody goes through periods of tension in life. either tension from work or tension at home. Tension leads to stress, then to sickness and extreme may even heart problems.
For the past one month i'm going through stress. Tension at work not because of anybody..its the workload. Most of the agencies i'm dealing with, gave me tough time. Everybody wants to protect their turf. I on the other hand, always think of the nation. What ever i do it's for the nation and the people. But others think of their own institutions or the glamour they can get. Its human nature ..to be so selfish and think of their own interest.

tension..tension..tension
how too deal with tension.....
i go for jogging
i tend to smile a lot to lessen the pressure
watch movies or tv..

but some times u need this tension moment in life. If everything goes smoothly in life, then life is no fun. I sometimes this kind of tension, it makes my life more challenging. Sometimes when there is no tension..i look for problems that create tension and try to overcome those problems that cause me tensions....
By solving them...i achieve the ultimate satisfaction.

what about all of u

People likes to be praised

Most men or women likes to be praised. Whoever, friends, colleagues or officers, they like to be said nice things about them. It's human nature. But over praising or over doing something is too much. Sometimes the person who is praising have some hidden agenda. Seldom a person praise another person with sincerity. Even among lovers, one partner praising the other because they wanna attract your partner. Of course, in 100 people, one or two maybe are genuine. But after marriage they will be cursing each other.

Seldom people like when u point out their mistakes in front of others. They like to be praised. I don't like to be hypocrite. Some people are good in these, they praise everybody. Even if they don't like the person they will nice things bout them.

I remember one of my lady friend is very good in these. She will praise everybody. Good in networking. This kind of person will be liked by everybody. But whether they are sincere is another story.

Its better to have a friend who criticize you and be sincere with you. Be carefrul if people praises who too much.

Irwan: tak makan puji

Are women more sensitive than men

I am a jovial guy who likes to make jokes and provoke people. Sometimes without realizing i tend to over say something and its just kind of casual statements about things. Sometimes criticizing or provoking others by pointing weaknesses or short comings.Its just jokes (gurau2 with frens) Like i said over gurau leads to people getting hurt but i feel i have done nothing wrong. The joke u do hurt women more than women. Are women more sensitive than men. I guess so. They to tend listen more carefully than men. If whatever you say something wrong that's it. Men are couldn't be bothered.

Even among my family members i find the similar behavior. Among my officers and colleagues too.

I need to deal differently with women than men. Need to praise and say nice things about them. Then they tend to like u more.

Alfathihah - I lost two good friends

This entry i dedicate to two of my friends who passed away recently.

Nik Adnan passed away about one week after raya, heart attack, must be in his early 50s He was a senior officer in EPU, PMs Dept.

The second friend is Dato' Dr Ramli Hassan, Deputy Sec.Gen of Ministry of Higher Education died early morning 4 am, 5/10/2010, heart attack, age 52. This guy his slim, used to jog, in fact according to friends he went to gym yesterday and attended some raya gatherings.

I lost two good friends. I will cherish them. Al-fathihah. Their soul be placed among the beriman souls.

Life and death is with GOD. Those who are with us today may disappear tomorrow. You can be the richest or the famous but when the time comes you must go. You can't even postpone death by a second.

Just a reminder to myself and all my faithful readers.

More personalities

Couple of months back i wrote about personalities in my division. really created a lot of controversy. some even came to see me, saying its not a good idea. Some says it may hurt those people who i have mentioned in the article. Is it so obvious that people can easily guess who they are. Then we should not be be so annoyed because we all have the same impression about others. Now lets us guess who they are. Clue all of them are officers in Treasury.

Iron lady
The biggest man
The big eyed man
Tallest man
Great musician
taxing people and sings well too
dress and look like kollywood actor
big eyed preety woman
great golfer
lady with river in front of her name
her hubby makes tasty carrot cake
beard man with lovely daughter
beauty queen from sabah
halle berry
Christine Hakim
Nicollete Sheridan
funniest man
small evaluator
Farouk Afero
bobby the administrator
sandra bullock
Danny DeVitto

22 person ...with different characters or similar look with celebrities from Hollywood, Kollywood and Indonwood.
if u guess right at least 10 out of 22...i would say u know treasury quite well.

Crime on the increasing trend, what ought to do

Crime rates of various kinds are on the increasing trend despite various efforts taken by the Government. The recent murder of a beautician along with three others is a testimony. The guys who are involved in the actual murder were young guys in their early 20s. Why they carried out this inhuman killings under the direction of their boss. Its all because of MONEY. A few thousand dollars is enough to hired to kill innocent people.

These guys must be from poor family background, low level of education, mixing with wrong group of friends and involved with drugs or intoxicating alcohol drinks. Mentally this guys are not stable and need to be rehabilitated. There are many more guys like this in our society. How can we overcome the existence of these kind of humans with animal soul?

We can put more policemen on the road. We can have more patrol cars and high-powered motorbikes. We can have all kind of sophisticated gadgets but crime keeps on increasing.

The ultimate solution is tackling crime at its root causes. Identify the areas of high crime occurrences and study why people in these areas commit crimes. Provide them with education, if they are drop-outs provide training so they are not unemployed, organize more youth coaching programs to be good citizens and caring society. Don't allow youth to loiter unnecessarily fill their time with valuable activities.

Make them realize MONEY is not everything in life.