Most men or women likes to be praised. Whoever, friends, colleagues or officers, they like to be said nice things about them. It's human nature. But over praising or over doing something is too much. Sometimes the person who is praising have some hidden agenda. Seldom a person praise another person with sincerity. Even among lovers, one partner praising the other because they wanna attract your partner. Of course, in 100 people, one or two maybe are genuine. But after marriage they will be cursing each other.
Seldom people like when u point out their mistakes in front of others. They like to be praised. I don't like to be hypocrite. Some people are good in these, they praise everybody. Even if they don't like the person they will nice things bout them.
I remember one of my lady friend is very good in these. She will praise everybody. Good in networking. This kind of person will be liked by everybody. But whether they are sincere is another story.
Its better to have a friend who criticize you and be sincere with you. Be carefrul if people praises who too much.
Irwan: tak makan puji
2 comments:
if you have nothing nice to say, i suggest you better keep quiet. there is always a way to compliment and to criticise, but of course, this is open to individuals.
for me, yang paling ideal would be to accept criticisms and compliments the same way. by being humble lah. orang puji, kita terima dengan humble. orang kutuk pun, kita humble.
heheh.
apa yg penting keredhaan Allah S.W.T ...tidak kisah laa siapa yang memuji dan dipuji..
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