Friday, May 16, 2008
Global Warming
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Club 61
My group members - Alec, Trish, me, Pedro Riaz and Karl standing behind are Steve and Lucio
My group is also quite unlucky. First, my mum passed away the second week. Then, week three, Steve was admittted to hospital for appendix or some say appendicitis operation. Week seven, Riaz was admitted to hospital for knee operation after injuring himself during a basketball game. This is my final week (week eight) - most of the participants are preparing to go home. Graduation day is on 23 May 2008.
Longlasting Friendship CLUB 61
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Visit to Cape Cod
It's kind a easy to find the motel which we have booked since it is the only red color motel in that town. It's called the Black Pearl Inn. The picture below shows the Inn. Wow like the movie - Psycho
When we went inside the Inn to register, there was a mexican guy and he led us the way. I was surprised and amazed. I go.... "My god, what kinda place is this". The walls are full of photos of naked men. I just put my hands on my mouth and kept moving. We registered and took our keys to the rooms. Once outside, we were all laughing. Apparently, the owner is a gay. Then, my fren Martin told the whole thing, which he knew earlier about Provincetown through internet and friends. Its actually a popular gay town. Most of the motels, bars and shops are owned by gays. Massachusetts is the only state in US where partners of the same sex ( species) can legally marry. So its seems that all gays and lesbian moved to this resort town to settle down. (Apparently, Malaysian gays should visit this place). That night, I locked my door and slept with the room light on - takut..... not the ghost but.... . Next morning, my friends told me they did they same thing. hahahahahahha..
In the town the road is quite narrow, similar to the old Malacca town. This town too, was first founded by the Portugese and later the British took over. You can see men and men holding hands walking past by you. Most of the people walk with their dogs. My friend said people here don't have kids, so they tend to have dogs. There are men dressed like women - transvestites singing at the roadside and in the bars. I met the gay guy Carlos from Brazil but now settled here working in a restaurant. (By the way, I'm a straight guy, to put things in perspective before u make other conclusions).
We went to eat at a well-know restaurant in the town - The Loster Pot. Ummmmmph..walaaaaa, the taste of huge lobster grilled with butter.
On Sunday we went on a Whale watching trip. We took a ferry at 10.00 am and the ferry took us into the open sea. We spotted whales, dolphins and birds. It's fun, once in a life-time (don't know will experience it again) 3 hrs trip. The whales came near the boat and it's breath really stinks. they are huge 16 feet long. Its amazing they jump out of the water - the whole body up in the air.


On monday, on the way back to Boston, we visited Hyanis - a smalltown where JFK and his family lived. It seems this his parents place and during summer vacation he comes over here. We visited the JFK meseum in the town and learned more about JFK's life. I admire JFK

Here are some of his famous quotes:
"Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country."
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names."
"If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich"
"If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity."
Irwan's quote: Everyday u experience new things in life. Each thing has a meaning to your life.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
My Mum Passed Away - I'm in Boston
Even before deciding to come to Boston to attend the Harvard course, I have been giving serious thoughts about the whole idea of coming to AMP course and what if something happens to my mum. Infact, she has been admmitted to hospital couple of times this year and last year too. Even last year I came to New York for 10 days. Nobody can decide on death. Before coming to Boston, I visited her in Ipoh (100 miles from KL). I didnt tell her I'm coming to Boston, because I dont want her to worry. I always advised her to be courageful and tell her couple of times we are old and everybody will have sickness. I advised her to take things easy. Of course, you can say thousand of words but she feels the pain of sickness.
I'm in a delima. I have to decide fast. Whether to go home and attend the funeral or just stay in Boston and finish the AMP course. If I decide to come back it will take more than 24 hours on one hand and I will be missing AMP on the other hand. I have lost my mum already but I dont want to lose AMP too. So I decided not to attend the funeral on 12 April 2008. Tough decision and life has to go on.
Mum forgive me. I love u forever.
Irwan
Boston, 4.00 pm 11/4/2008
Monday, April 7, 2008
Harvard Business School-The way forward
Harvard Business School (HBS)- AMP 174- Room 61-3
Last week, on Thusrday we had our Living Group Acceleration day where each group sort have ice-breaking event with lots of activities together, with a consultant facilitating us all the way. Well, for the next seven weeks, I will be spending most of my time we this seven new found frens in HBS. I will be with them day and night. They are Pedro (from Portugal but a CEO of a company in Poland), Karl (German guy ( he looks fierce like a typical older generation Germans) now permanently living in US as CFO in a company), Riaz ( French living in Canada), Steve (from US typical american who cant leave his basketball, baseball and american football games on tv), Alec (the youngest from Hong Kong), Lucio (sounds Luchio not lusio similar to the late Luciano Pavaroti (not sure whether correct spelling)) from Australia. He was born in Italy moved to South Africa, England and migrated to Australia and lastly, the only lady in the group, Trish ( US lady) very friendly and understanding. The guys, as any american and european, like wine and beer. She bought a crate of beers and bottles of wine this morning. They are gonna party every nite but they work hard too. Group discussions start after dinner at 7.30 and goes up until 12 to 1 am. Last night, saturday night, Pedro took us to a Portugese restaurant in Boston. Great...i had a grilled cod fish. emm walaaa...they drank wine and beer and shouted ........saaallutte... in Portugese.
Coming back to the AMP course, its too demanding. Everyday there are 3 case studies given and u need to discuss with your group and followed by the lectures on the subject the whole day. Group discussions is crucial since you will argue and analyse each case study in your group to enable you to participate in the next day's lecture. You will hardly have time for yourselves. Anyway, as a Treasury and E-division officer who is so used to pressures and stress, I think i can manage this. Same goes to anyone in E-division. I think Mala wouldnt face any problem in her DPA course (kacang ajer). Anyway, kelakar tengok Mala dlm uniform Bomba.... enjoy and enjoy... girl.
Reminder, in any course we attend, while we work hard, we must always enjoy each and every moment... if u don't enjoy then u will suffer and have unnecessary pressures and stress. If you encounter problem talk to your buddies..me luckily in HBS , i have Pedro..same kepala...
1.20 pm Boston