Marriage is a union between man and woman through legal contract, cultural or religious arrangements. Marriage practices are very diverse across cultures, yet almost every known society has had some form of marriage between a man and a woman. In some societies an individual is limited to being in one such couple at a time (monogamy), while other cultures allow a male to have more than one wife (polygamy) or, less commonly, a female to have more than one husband (polyandry).
There are many types of marriages:
1.runaway marriage (kahwin lari)
2.cowboy marriage (kahwin koboi)
3.forced marriage (kahwin paksa)
4.kahwin gantung
5.contract marriage (kahwin kontrak)
6.arranged marriage (perkahwinan yang diatur)
7.chinese marriage (Perkahwinan Cina - pengaturan antara keluarga)
8.common law marriage (Perkahwinan common law - kelas taraf antara perorangan)
9.digital marriage (Perkahwinan digital - dua orang yang bertemu dalam komuniti maya)
10.fleet marriage (Perkahwinan Fleet)
11.group marriage (Perkahwinan kelompok)
12.Levirate marriage (Perkahwinan levirat - adik kahwin dgn janda abang)
13.leisure marriage (Perkahwinan untuk masa lapang dan kesenangan)
14.Morganatic marriage (Perkahwinan morganatik -antara orang bangsawan dengan gundik)
15.open marriage (Perkahwinan terbuka)
16. same gender marriage (Perkahwinan sama jantina)
17. sororate marriage (Perkahwinan sororat - husband marrying wife's sister after her death)
18. secret marriage (kahwin rahsia)
19 caught marriage (kahwin tangkap)
20. dream marriage (kahwin mimpi)
People marry for many reasons, including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious. Of course, some marry for money, some for sexual needs and some to have off-springs.
There many kind of marriages. Arranged marriage by parents. Love marriages between two lovers. Some say it's better for their family to find the right partner for them. Another school of thought, believes you should fall in love, understand a person you get married and live for ever with the partner. Both marriages have their good and bad points.
Ii is also said marriage and divorce is fated, decided by God. Some marry only one wife and till death do they depart. Other men tend to have more than one wife.
Nowadays, people find it difficult to get a good life partner, not only in terms of financial security but also in possessing good character. You only discover your partners bad attitude after marriage. As more and more people are not getting married.
Some even marry the gender i.e. woman marrying woman (lesbian) and men having men as their partners (gay).
For me marriage is something beautiful and it is important that you manage properly. The managing of a marriage is very delicate. Some marriage does not survive very long. Marriage is like boat...how you manage it and guide t to the destination of happiness. They say don't rock boat....overcome ups and downs...to reach the destination successful.
There many more things we can write on marriage but i think i better stop here to hear " What do you think of marriage?"
2 comments:
i had one very great life partner which i'm very thanksful of:)) i don't believe in marriage because of money or sexual needs as it won't last long...marriage is always about giving and receiving and in the end, u'll never loose anything, but u'll get more
wiow... i never knew there's so many types of marriage?!!
well, at this point of time i honestly am not (really) thinking about marriage yet. because i am pretty selfish, when marriage is so much abt selflessness
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