Thursday, September 23, 2010

Friends - who they are

Today wanna write about friends. friends are part of everybody's life. Man without friends is like life without fun. We have all kind of friends. Friends can be a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal. It can be a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter. Or a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile. He can be a member of the same state, nation, party, race, locality or even office-mate.

Most friends will show love and caring for you. There are friends you can depend on when u r in trouble or having problems. They are willing to help you irrespective of the situations and whether its nite or day. Do we find these kind of friends now.

Its tough today to find true friends. Most friends usually want to take advantage of you. Some friends wanna be close to you because you bring some form of benefits to them. Some are close to you because of money.... they can easily borrow from you. Some are close to u because you are not selfish and willing to spend money lavishly treating everybody. He must be getting free lunch everyday. friends who make you of you.


So we must know how to choose the right kind of friends. Do u need to evaluate a person before you choose him to be your friend. Its difficult to evaluate unless somebody alerts you. There is also a degree of measure of how strong your friendship with a person. There are close friends, not so close friends, friends once in a while, hi hi hi friends and distanced friends.

Having said so much about friendship, most often we end up choosing the wrong ones.

3 comments:

sillytoe said...

interesting entry.
i see the categories like this:
the cash-lane friends.
the touch-'n'-go friends.
the smart-tag-lane friends.

hehehe.

Anonymous said...

there is also this "hehehe" friend, like sillytoe.

a good friend to laugh with.

Halina Abd Hamid said...

but its very easy ti find the 'he he he' friends.