Hatred

In simple, hatred or hate describes intense feelings of dislike. The dislike or hostility feelings is directed towards individuals, organisations, things or even situations. You may often hear phrases such as, "I hate you", "I hate chocolate", "I hate horror movies" or "I hate Microsoft or IBM" and so on.

The focus of this entry is more on hatred between individuals. Why do you hate or why the hatred feelings boils inside you. Between indiviuals. he or she must have done something bad that makes you dislike them. They may have lied about you or lied to you, create gossips about you, always create problems for you and so on. You will either try to find ways to mitigate the problem or just try to avoid this individual as possible as you can. Sometimes, the more you hate the person, the more you love the person. This is true, in case, you really like the person. You will hate the person, but inside you love him/her.

There are people who often irritates you. Everytime you are with friends or colleagues, these individuals will make sarcastic remarks and annoys others. They don't know what to say when. They are not in line with the thinking of the ordinary people.

In my daily life, I encounter this kind of characters. There is guy, he who knows everything. He will crush others ideas. Criticise others. Often suspicious of anything you say. He often uses vulgar words. Nobody likes him.

Another character, who doesnt know when to make jokes. For him everything is a joke. When people are doing serious work, he will create unnecessary remarks.

Then there is this guy, who doesnt know whether people like him to be around or not. He is not sensitive. He will enter your room and starts talking, he coudnt be bothered whether your are listening to him or not. He will continue speaking to you, even if you say you are going to the toilet and he will follow you in to the toilet.

I know hating people, especially your office colleagues is not good but you can't help it. The most you can do is to just accept them for what they are. So long they don't bring harm to you.

Note: Have you gone through similar experiences..