According to wikipedia trust means a relationship of reliance. I trust a person means you can rely on that person. Among friends you develop trust so that the relationship gets stronger. Its quite difficult to create trust in a person. It takes time. Sometimes you tend to test your friend to find out whether you can trust him/her. Usually, you make promise and see whether that person breaks that promise. Once you trust a person, you will start telling him/her more things about yourself or about anything. Along the way, sometimes friends do things that makes you never trust him/her. In organisations, especially in your working place, you will have couple of friends whom you hang around with. Among them there will be one or two, whom you really trust. Sharing things like food, jokes and even talking about personal problems. Everybody needs a person whom she/he trust, just to let out things, such as problems or even tension at work. People who isolate themselves and seldom mix around, usually are difficult to trust others. On the other hand, those who have lots of friends and easily approachable, will trust too many people. Both of this two extremes are not advisable (my on thots, you may have different views). Person who gets friendly with people but are careful in choosing trustworthy friends will face less problems.
Why am I talking about trustworthiness. Currently, as people become so busy with work and hectic life style, they need somebody who is trustworthy to share things. This will help lessen the burden that is bothering your mind. By way of sharing and telling your problems to the trusted one, you can release your mental burden or disturbances. Of course, there are persons whom you trust so much but they start telling everything to others and its too late when you discover that the trusted person has being broadcasting your secrets or personal matters.
Why am I talking about trustworthiness. Currently, as people become so busy with work and hectic life style, they need somebody who is trustworthy to share things. This will help lessen the burden that is bothering your mind. By way of sharing and telling your problems to the trusted one, you can release your mental burden or disturbances. Of course, there are persons whom you trust so much but they start telling everything to others and its too late when you discover that the trusted person has being broadcasting your secrets or personal matters.
As such before we trust anybody, we must conduct our own test and investigation about our friends. Listening is the first thing to do. By listening to a person, you can know what type of a person he/she is. Dont make judgement yet. Listen what other people think about that person. Dont make judgement yet. Carry out some simple test to determine whether she/he is innocent, sincere, responsible and honest. Dont make quick decision. It takes time to trust a person. Trustworthiness is something important to all individuals.
Note: Christine i trust you. Others what do u think about trust? Do you have somebody who betrayed in your life? How and Why?
1 comment:
i'm pretty much sure that EVERYBODY has experienced betrayal before - in any kind of relationships. and i am pretty much sure, that everybody has experienced the act of betraying as well. maybe not in a bigger scale, perhaps the small ones that we wouldn't even considered it as well, betrayal. but we are talking about trustworthiness right?
i wouldn't want to share about my own personal experiences on betrayals here.
simply because it hurts.
Post a Comment